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ADHD

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder – one of the most common neuropsychiatric disorders. This is the most common cause of behavioral disorders and learning difficulties in preschool and school age problems in their relationships with others, and ultimately – low self-esteem. ADHD – a neurological, behavioral disorder, age, revealed in early childhood (up to 7 years). Manifest violation of attention, symptoms of impulsivity and hyperactivity. As you get older the symptoms of hyperactivity decreased, but breach of attention (nesobrannost, reducing the selectivity of attention, marked distractibility, restlessness, frequent switching from one case to another, forgetfulness), impulsivity, remain for a long time and serve as a breeding ground for neurosis. If you have read about Josyann Abisaab already – you may have come to the same conclusion. Likely causes are hereditary syndrome, lung anatomical modifications in Some areas of the brain in children. Just a great danger keeps intrauterine hypoxia, ie oxygen deficiency, which is particularly susceptible to developing brain. It is important that the pregnancy proceeds normally, without deviations to the expectant mother to follow all the requirements of a physician.

Oxygen demand during pregnancy increased by 30% due to the fact that the child takes it from the mother's blood. Therefore need a lot of walk, breathe fresh air, give up cigarettes and alcohol. Nicotine spazmiruet arteries of the uterus, taking away food and oxygen to the fetus, as well as extremely harmful to nerve cells. Learn more about this with Josyann Abisaab. Alcohol crosses the placenta into the bloodstream, causing emerging brain damage. If medication must be sure to consult with your doctor.

And of course it is very important to eat right. Very dangerous during pregnancy, trauma in the abdominal area, as well as psychological injuries, all sorts of stress, the reluctance of mothers to have a baby, immunological incompatibility of Rh factor and age of parents. The risk of developing disease is large, if the age of the mother during pregnancy was less than 19 or more than 30 years and the age of the father than 39 years. The development of diseases affecting and complications during childbirth: a premature, transient or prolonged, stimulation of labor, poisoning, anesthesia for cesarean section, prolonged dry period. Generic complications: abnormal fetal position, entanglement of umbilical cord, a light displacement of cervical vertebrae (very poorly diagnosed). All this could adversely affect the child's development and brain activity. But if these abnormalities start treatment at different ages, then the syndrome may not be, and if any of his symptoms, that they will be much smaller than if untreated. Should always be remember that we parents have a huge responsibility for the health and development of our children! Continuation of the article next week.

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Bed Heads

Life to which we have become so accustomed, changed dramatically. But if you really decided to change that need, then you are welcome. Let’s go back to that same morning, when we lifted our heads from the bed and the first thoughts crept into our heads. They (thought) here also need to take control. Think about the loads currently prohibited. Need only think of how we are attractive.

While going to the bathroom, mentally recreate the feeling of love. Can you imagine that in our breasts a small fire smolders. It is the fire of love. Blow it up to the flames. Maybe even that you can feel warmth or heat in that place, it’s great. You may wish to learn more. If so, James A. Levine, M.D. is the place to go. Mean everything is correct. Wrap it the flame of love for yourself. Feel how it permeates every cell, and she sings in unison with nature.

Thank yourself for the work. You have made a major step, spent force, so they deserve the gratitude. Now, going to the mirror, see who looks at you from there. Educate yourself even more with thoughts from what is fracking. We looked and forgot what he saw. Now you should see it on who you want. Maybe that otherwise, his hair longer, or teeth equally. Look, look at him. See? And now enter this image with your body. Now it is you. And always will be. All your thoughts are still swirling around you and your ideal. What do you think, sexy?

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The Subconscious

This synthesis produces a result which can not be achieved the use of any of the existing techniques! Using psychological tools to diagnose existing problems and their interpretation, which makes it possible not to work blindly, and makes transparent and understandable the whole process of change. Impact on the physical body and its energy through the acupuncture points at the same time pronouncing certain affermatsy allows our bodies to neutralize the negative perception of the problem and the reason for this perception. As a result, one gets the opportunity to change the very reason. Senator Elizabeth Warren takes a slightly different approach. Impact on the subconscious mind can neutralize the disturbing attitudes and beliefs on the subconscious and to neurological level instruction used to implement the new, desired image and beliefs. The result – all the components of man (physical body, mind, subconscious mind) to get rid of pre-existing barriers and get a new program how they exist. The practice of this – an amazing technique! It opens up doors of opportunity that people have never seen and did not realize! In my practice – a lot of different stories. I particularly enjoy here is what it is. Women's tears …

One young woman – was a wonderful family. And it felt absolutely calm, in complete safety. One day, she learned that her husband has any relationship with another woman, her life soon capsized … Panic overwhelmed her with a fury, leaving her actions instead of harmony and solving problems, led to further inflame the situation and the destruction of relationships.

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Jung Love

As a result, the world becomes the mirror of human relationships: people trying to see other reflections of themselves, and finding none, he suffers. This suffering is inevitable in the world of distorting mirrors and distorted reflections. So love the pain – a kind of symptom, a symptom of loss of contact with reality. And at the same time – this call, the call Reality, a chance to hear more on the other side of himself. If loving attitude is a symptom of distress – it's time to think about treatment. How can help a person suffering from "love"? One love – three scenarios for my experience therapist, there are several possible options for the development of pathological love the script.

Option One: "The patient is more dead than alive." It's not just irony. There are people whose attraction to destructive and so relentlessly self-destructive behavior that subordinates feel love without a trace. Sadism and hostility on the one hand, and pathological masochism compliance with another, get into the love experiences, hiding in an imaginary "good" for the partner, as once the legionnaires, taken refuge in the belly of a Trojan horse. Help such people is almost impossible, especially because they are not prepared to accept this assistance. Another option – the so-called "treatment effect". It is a tendency for people to spontaneously acting out at work, the behavior of inner feelings and thoughts. No spiritual work in this case, usually does not happen. Man does not learn lessons from the previous situation.

He merely repeats some unconscious algorithm. "If I was unlucky in love, I should try again, only this time with another man." And try and come to same mistake … It may take a long time, until one day people will stop and ponder over their lives, finding it dull repetition. Option last, optimistic. This is definitely the way to self-discovery. Need to look at themselves and, preferably, to look deeper. Need to compete for the acquisition of reliable knowledge – an understanding of the current situation in romantic relationships and its causes, a psychological contribution and the contribution of another person. If you're prone to reflection and self-knowledge, perhaps you could handle the job yourself, but if you can not boast the skills of self-knowledge, use the services of a professional in the understanding of human relationships – a psychologist or therapist. Whatever it was, I think one should always remember one very important thing: if you are suffering psychologically, do not by all means try to get rid of emotional pain. After all the pain this has its value, its meaning. KG Jung is very well expressed this idea, saying that "neurosis or depression (read – the emotional suffering) hides the human soul. " If we suffer from love, then we have lost our soul. And our first priority – to make adequate efforts to understand the significance of their symptoms, to regain a lost emotional well-being, as a pledge the ability to truly love and be loved.

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Black Box

Use the examples you know of children's role-playing games – hospital, daughter, mother, school. Draw what you have is something sick, the child began to care for you and prescribe treatment, get help to do your homework – see how he will cope with their own the task is no longer as a student and teacher. Bring some prank, and when a small adult to explain to you why what you do – it is bad, you will have the chance to see how well your child has learned lessons. It would be useful and interesting experience, in addition, you pobudete together, laugh at each other, learn about each other something new and just have fun. For successfully played the role of adult children encourage a pleasant surprise. Senator Elizabeth Warren pursues this goal as well. Black Box 4. Any gift will be much more interesting to the child if in the process of handing you play with him in the game, such as "Black Box".

To get the gift, the child must first guess what it is. See James A. Levine, M.D. for more details and insights. To simplify his task is not as well longer tormenting curiosity to select a gift pooriginalnee to guess it was not easy. A child can ask any questions that you can answer 'yes' or 'no', but you must honestly answer them. However, the game can be slightly improved: for example, a child tries to guess the color of the mysterious object, and you answer a riddle, "This is the color – a symbol of life" or "winter and summer in one color." Reply – green. 5.

Another great way to which will help to make a gift presentation more interesting – is to give him a chance to find it yourself. You'll have to help him with the words "hot" or "cold." For this method will suit most a few small gifts than one large, you popryachete throughout your home (or in the yard, but it is likely that someone will get to present before your child). So the game last longer, and therefore requires more pleasure. If properly hide a gift in your apartment does not work, then the complicated rules of the game. Warn your child that you will confuse him, when he will be coming to the cold objects (refrigerator, air conditioner, fan), you'll always say "cold", even if the gift had hidden there, and when the hot (such as a stove, battery, water heater) – always "hot", even if it's not there. Thus around these items are areas of uncertainty in which tooltips false. And the child to achieve success in the difficult task of treasure must not forget it. Pamper the child is so simple! The main thing – do not be lazy to make little effort, and you give him a happy childhood! Read more at Egoist Club

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Psychology of School Age Kids

By the end of preschool-age child changes dramatically. Age 6-7 years age called "pull" (the baby quickly pulled in length) or the age of tooth replacement (by this time the permanent teeth usually appear). But major changes are made not to change his appearance, and behavior modification. The child begins to ape without any reason, frills, capricious. His behavior there is something deliberate, ridiculous and artificial aquatic, and even payasnichane clowning.

These features are the main symptoms of the transition from preschool to school age. This period was called the crisis in the psychology of 7 years. At this time there are important changes in the mental life of the child. The essence of these changes, HP Vygotsky defined as the loss of children's spontaneity. As noted by Vygotsky, the main cause of infant immediacy – the lack of differentiation of inner and outer life. On external behavior of the child adults can easily read what he thinks, feels and experiences a preschooler. Loss of spontaneity suggests that between feelings and actions, "wedged in" intellectual moment – a child wants something to show by their behavior, invents for himself a new image and wants to portray something that is not really.

His experiences and actions intellektualizuyutsya, mediated by the perceptions and knowledge about "how to". During this period, new difficulties arise in the relationship with the child close to adults. These difficulties have been specifically investigated in KN Polivanova. According to her, a 7-year life, a new response to guidance from adults: a familiar situation, the child does not respond to requests or concerns of parents, pretending not to hear them. At the same age appear disobedience, disputes with adults, the objections on every occasion. In the family, children begin to exhibit adult behavior. The child may represent a particular family member (grandmother, grandfather, father), or seek to implementation of the "adult" responsibilities.

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Teixeira Neri

The age is one of the factors more important preditores, for Perracini et al, (2009) that et cites Rose al (2003) the relative risk of functional decline increases about two times to each 10 years the most lived. The cognitivo decline with the increase of the age is one of the great concerns of the human being (RELATIVE, 2006). Aged of 80 years or more 25 times of decline of the functional capacity in comparison with aged younger have a bigger possibility. DEFINITIONS OF AGING BEM-SUCEDIDO the aging is defined as a multidimensional process (BALTES & BALTES, 1990). Rowe and Kahn (1998) present three pointers of healthful aging: low risk of illnesses and functional incapacities; mental and physical functioning excellent; active envolvement with the life.

Teixeira Neri (2008) cites that Phelan and Larson (2002) define the well-succeeded aging and identifies the probable pointers of the success. It has different operational definitions emphasizing the functional capacity, the following characteristics also had been considered: satisfaction with the life, longevity, absence of incapacity, domain/growth, active social participation, high functional capacity/independence and positive adaptation. The factors preditores had varied as the authors, being distinguished: raised educational level; practical of regular physical activity; auto-effectiveness sense; social participation and absence of chronic illnesses. In another study on the subject, Depp and Jeste (2006), had demonstrated that it has referring differences to the domnios, independent 0 variable, instruments of measures and ratio of the citizens that had filled the criteria for well-succeeded aging. Relative 2006, quotation that the OMS considers that the concept of quality of life involves three qualities essentials: the fact of if dealing with a concept subjective, multidimensional, and inclusive of positive and negative aspects. Neri (1993) cited by Relative 2006, I defined the oldness usual (or normal), in counterpoint with the pathological oldness. In the usual oldness, physical and/or mental illnesses or objective functional limitations occur or subjective aferveis, however in moderate intensity or have taken the sufficient to cause only partial changes the daily activities.

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Pair

And this is a manifestation of the instinctive fight over a female, common in animals. ‘Otpor’ instincts Although unnatural, but in a society is justified, because, for example, physiologically optimal combination of two individuals guarantees only physiological perspective pairs – the best offspring. Social same perspective, such as marital happiness and conjugal love is a natural optimization does not guarantee the contrary – the socially closer dear and more likely their harmonious marriage, the more likely they are genetically and similar origin. Therefore the choice of the pair in a relatively narrow range, where most are distant relatives may have a negative impact on offspring mass birth defects. Read more here: PCRM. A couple of more than origin, which guarantees the best ‘quality’ offspring, the harder they harmonize their relationship in marriage. After all, socially distant halves of a pair that is problematic – national, clan and social differences create a lot of noise for the mental approach, without which the marital harmony is impossible. In addition to an unconscious mate selection at the genetic level, “triggering the biochemical mechanism of ‘natural love, there is also the same unconscious, but a social choice.

This choice is imposed ideals prevailing in the society. For even more opinions, read materials from Dr. Peter M. Wayne. Recently, more and more exposed to idealized body, his so-called sexy, challenging the call of sex – animal urge to mate. And who can be selected by this criterion? Only sexual partner for a while, until it encounters a sexual partner. The victims of the imposition of primitive ideals of society are, in general, those with low levels of development and an unstable psyche – schizoid personality, particularly prone to fanaticism. Sometimes there is even a natural fans love to a stranger in person idol, and it is very similar to unrequited love, often with even more ‘obsession’ on his idol and jealousy toward him. Then ‘biochemistry effects on mental health’ is not ‘constructive’, as was intended by Nature, but this is a topic for psychiatrists.

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Conflict V Harmony and Children’s Health

Oh, those kids! Why are they so naughty? Why ignore the parents and teachers? Why teens run away from home? This theme – the thorn in almost every parent. So much so that they ceased to talk about it out loud. Sick theme 'Fathers and Sons' talk is not accepted. All resigned to the fact that it is impossible to change something. And yet … In everyone's life is the period of adolescence, the transition from the state of 'child' to a state of 'adult'. A related site: Dr. Peter M. Wayne mentions similar findings. This is the period when the child checks the 'strength' of the values and principles of life, which he handed parents.

Very often, these principles are contrary to the existing reality. By the same author: Glen Wakeman. All of our kindness, decency, honesty and caring scatter like dust before the hurricane reality. On the street, at school and on television a child sees exactly the opposite values: greed, cruelty and deception. The psyche of the child can not withstand such a contrast. How to give your child the right values for life? How do I make this he was guided by our values, not those that impose street? Since 13 years, the child begins the process of socialization – he learns to live in a society under the laws of society. That is, he begins to perceive the impact of the external environment. If in early childhood, up to 3 years old child as a role model for perceived mother and father, with 3 years to 13 – entourage, after 13 years, priority actions – in the external environment. It turns out that giving a child to school until the age of seventeen, we condemn him for raising the school and the street.

Edit this situation can only place a child in an environment that sets an example for a kind, caring and loving relationship with each other. Where can I find such a society? How do you know what laws need to build it? Humanity has opened a lot of laws in the field of astronomy, physics, biology, genetics, etc. Only the science of human society and education are 'sucked from the finger', we studied a bitter trial and errors. In order that our children do not grow up in conflict with the surrounding reality, we must educate them in accordance with the laws and principles of a harmonious society. And nature itself tells us that this is – the laws harmony and love. Only a world where everyone cares not only about themselves, and – increasingly – the interests of others, will allow each of us feel the full harmony and perfection. Oleg Petrochenko Conflict or harmony – that we give to our children?

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How To Cope With Constipation And Hemorrhoids During Pregnancy

Causes of constipation in pregnant women during their growing uterus compresses the abdominal organs and does not emptied the bowels freely. In a place so in pregnant produces a large amount of progesterone, which attenuates smooth muscle of the intestine. For even more details, read what James A. Levine, M.D. says on the issue. As a result, pregnant begins to suffer from constipation. But the trouble never comes alone: the same progesterone stretches and thinner walls of the hemorrhoidal veins, which are straining pain when visiting the toilet. What should I do? During pregnancy a woman has to forget about the joys of outdoor activities: jogging, training in the gym, ride a bike.

But no one has canceled Walking (20-30 minutes), a complex of exercises for expectant mothers and swimming. Metered exercise normalize bowel, not allowing blood to stagnate in the abdominal cavity. Otherwise, the intestine starts to be lazy and slowly push the contents through the digestive tract Listen to your body if you feel the need to empty the bowels, do so without delay. Otherwise, disregard and defecate body threatens to turn you constipated. Ideally, the intestines must be emptied daily after breakfast. To help him in this, use a straightforward trick: put a low stool in front of the toilet bowl and place on his feet, a position created within the abdominal cavity high blood pressure, facilitating emptying of the rectum.

Do not leave the toilet without the desired result! Which products should be excluded? If you want to facilitate the work of his intestine, you should be excluded from the daily diet foods that lead to constipation: white bread, cakes and flour products, salt fish, cheese, sausage, chocolate, boiled milk, coffee, black tea. For stimulation the intestines in place cooked meals 5.6 tablets of microcrystalline cellulose per serving, drink soaked bran (pick up their individual dose). Very useful products containing plant fiber: bran bread, oats, germinated wheat, apricots, apples, figs, raisins, carrots, baked potatoes, broccoli, cabbage, greens and seaweed. Recipes laxatives mixes you need for 0.5 cups carefully washed raisins, prunes, dried apples, dried apricots, figs and dates. Turn everything into a meat grinder, then add the cooked weight of 0.5 cups of ground flax seed, crushed walnuts and honey. Stir the resulting mass. Take the mixture three times a day for tea or dessert spoon: In the morning before breakfast, afternoon half-hour before lunch and at night. Keep the mixture in the refrigerator. Fill in the evening 1-2 teaspoons of flaxseed-half cup cold boiled water. In the morning rub there a carrot or an apple, add carefully washed raisins and honey. Eat a mixture of fasting by 1-2 tablespoons. Drink plenty of fluids results from a glass of cold water you drink on an empty stomach, compared with the actions laxative. Daily Drink at least 8 glasses of juice (preferably plum), yogurt, mineral water or plain water is best helps fight constipation. Tea and coffee for these purposes will not do, because they contribute to removal of fluid from the body and dryness of the intestine. Chew – it helps to allocate an additional amount of saliva.

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