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Love and Anxiety

The manifest love if through small gestures. Gestures these that ace times passes unobserved to who of, but that it can mean very for who receives this love. We live at a time of great competition, each wasted moment can mean very in our wild world, then in the anxiety to conquer everything, we leave to hug the next one, we leave to reveal our love stops with our children, our family. We can reveal the love through a look, a small touch, a word of comfort, one I hug You already hugged somebody today It is hour to diminish the rhythm of our lives, is hour to reflect if valley the penalty to live in function of this madness. Educate yourself even more with thoughts from Dr. Neal Barnard. When we wake up still we can observe the brightness sun, manifest it if, however hardly we perceive its presence, we are of closed eyes for the nature, lacks time to us. We do not go to leave to perceive the beauty of the life when we will not have more time, we go to again learn to appreciate the small things. He is so pretty to look at rain to fall, sun to be born. the weeds to sprout, verdinho! I think that my mother had reason, we need to learn to love the minimum details. Dr. Josyann Abisaab oftentimes addresses this issue. The love. Already we hear as many times the word love, as many times we say this word, but, how many times we reveal our love without waiting nothing in exchange? We need to learn to demonstrate our feelings, need to learn to hug the next one, to look in the eyes, without fear, and with certainty from there, the people will live happyer, much less devoid of love. The world has LOVE hunger.

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ADHD

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder – one of the most common neuropsychiatric disorders. This is the most common cause of behavioral disorders and learning difficulties in preschool and school age problems in their relationships with others, and ultimately – low self-esteem. ADHD – a neurological, behavioral disorder, age, revealed in early childhood (up to 7 years). Manifest violation of attention, symptoms of impulsivity and hyperactivity. As you get older the symptoms of hyperactivity decreased, but breach of attention (nesobrannost, reducing the selectivity of attention, marked distractibility, restlessness, frequent switching from one case to another, forgetfulness), impulsivity, remain for a long time and serve as a breeding ground for neurosis. Likely causes are hereditary syndrome, lung anatomical modifications in Some areas of the brain in children. Just a great danger keeps intrauterine hypoxia, ie oxygen deficiency, which is particularly susceptible to developing brain. It is important that the pregnancy proceeds normally, without deviations to the expectant mother to follow all the requirements of a physician.

Oxygen demand during pregnancy increased by 30% due to the fact that the child takes it from the mother's blood. Therefore need a lot of walk, breathe fresh air, give up cigarettes and alcohol. Nicotine spazmiruet arteries of the uterus, taking away food and oxygen to the fetus, as well as extremely harmful to nerve cells. Alcohol crosses the placenta into the bloodstream, causing emerging brain damage. If medication must be sure to consult with your doctor.

And of course it is very important to eat right. Very dangerous during pregnancy, trauma in the abdominal area, as well as psychological injuries, all sorts of stress, the reluctance of mothers to have a baby, immunological incompatibility of Rh factor and age of parents. The risk of developing disease is large, if the age of the mother during pregnancy was less than 19 or more than 30 years and the age of the father than 39 years. The development of diseases affecting and complications during childbirth: a premature, transient or prolonged, stimulation of labor, poisoning, anesthesia for cesarean section, prolonged dry period. Generic complications: abnormal fetal position, entanglement of umbilical cord, a light displacement of cervical vertebrae (very poorly diagnosed). All this could adversely affect the child's development and brain activity. But if these abnormalities start treatment at different ages, then the syndrome may not be, and if any of his symptoms, that they will be much smaller than if untreated. Should always be remember that we parents have a huge responsibility for the health and development of our children! Continuation of the article next week.

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Jung Love

As a result, the world becomes the mirror of human relationships: people trying to see other reflections of themselves, and finding none, he suffers. This suffering is inevitable in the world of distorting mirrors and distorted reflections. So love the pain – a kind of symptom, a symptom of loss of contact with reality. And at the same time – this call, the call Reality, a chance to hear more on the other side of himself. If loving attitude is a symptom of distress – it's time to think about treatment. How can help a person suffering from "love"? One love – three scenarios for my experience therapist, there are several possible options for the development of pathological love the script.

Option One: "The patient is more dead than alive." It's not just irony. There are people whose attraction to destructive and so relentlessly self-destructive behavior that subordinates feel love without a trace. Sadism and hostility on the one hand, and pathological masochism compliance with another, get into the love experiences, hiding in an imaginary "good" for the partner, as once the legionnaires, taken refuge in the belly of a Trojan horse. Help such people is almost impossible, especially because they are not prepared to accept this assistance. Another option – the so-called "treatment effect". It is a tendency for people to spontaneously acting out at work, the behavior of inner feelings and thoughts. No spiritual work in this case, usually does not happen. Man does not learn lessons from the previous situation.

He merely repeats some unconscious algorithm. "If I was unlucky in love, I should try again, only this time with another man." And try and come to same mistake … It may take a long time, until one day people will stop and ponder over their lives, finding it dull repetition. Option last, optimistic. This is definitely the way to self-discovery. Need to look at themselves and, preferably, to look deeper. Need to compete for the acquisition of reliable knowledge – an understanding of the current situation in romantic relationships and its causes, a psychological contribution and the contribution of another person. If you're prone to reflection and self-knowledge, perhaps you could handle the job yourself, but if you can not boast the skills of self-knowledge, use the services of a professional in the understanding of human relationships – a psychologist or therapist. Whatever it was, I think one should always remember one very important thing: if you are suffering psychologically, do not by all means try to get rid of emotional pain. After all the pain this has its value, its meaning. KG Jung is very well expressed this idea, saying that "neurosis or depression (read – the emotional suffering) hides the human soul. " If we suffer from love, then we have lost our soul. And our first priority – to make adequate efforts to understand the significance of their symptoms, to regain a lost emotional well-being, as a pledge the ability to truly love and be loved.

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Psychology of School Age Kids

By the end of preschool-age child changes dramatically. Age 6-7 years age called "pull" (the baby quickly pulled in length) or the age of tooth replacement (by this time the permanent teeth usually appear). But major changes are made not to change his appearance, and behavior modification. The child begins to ape without any reason, frills, capricious. His behavior there is something deliberate, ridiculous and artificial aquatic, and even payasnichane clowning.

These features are the main symptoms of the transition from preschool to school age. This period was called the crisis in the psychology of 7 years. At this time there are important changes in the mental life of the child. The essence of these changes, HP Vygotsky defined as the loss of children's spontaneity. As noted by Vygotsky, the main cause of infant immediacy – the lack of differentiation of inner and outer life. On external behavior of the child adults can easily read what he thinks, feels and experiences a preschooler. Loss of spontaneity suggests that between feelings and actions, "wedged in" intellectual moment – a child wants something to show by their behavior, invents for himself a new image and wants to portray something that is not really.

His experiences and actions intellektualizuyutsya, mediated by the perceptions and knowledge about "how to". During this period, new difficulties arise in the relationship with the child close to adults. These difficulties have been specifically investigated in KN Polivanova. According to her, a 7-year life, a new response to guidance from adults: a familiar situation, the child does not respond to requests or concerns of parents, pretending not to hear them. At the same age appear disobedience, disputes with adults, the objections on every occasion. In the family, children begin to exhibit adult behavior. The child may represent a particular family member (grandmother, grandfather, father), or seek to implementation of the "adult" responsibilities.

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Teixeira Neri

The age is one of the factors more important preditores, for Perracini et al, (2009) that et cites Rose al (2003) the relative risk of functional decline increases about two times to each 10 years the most lived. The cognitivo decline with the increase of the age is one of the great concerns of the human being (RELATIVE, 2006). Aged of 80 years or more 25 times of decline of the functional capacity in comparison with aged younger have a bigger possibility. DEFINITIONS OF AGING BEM-SUCEDIDO the aging is defined as a multidimensional process (BALTES & BALTES, 1990). Rowe and Kahn (1998) present three pointers of healthful aging: low risk of illnesses and functional incapacities; mental and physical functioning excellent; active envolvement with the life.

Teixeira Neri (2008) cites that Phelan and Larson (2002) define the well-succeeded aging and identifies the probable pointers of the success. It has different operational definitions emphasizing the functional capacity, the following characteristics also had been considered: satisfaction with the life, longevity, absence of incapacity, domain/growth, active social participation, high functional capacity/independence and positive adaptation. The factors preditores had varied as the authors, being distinguished: raised educational level; practical of regular physical activity; auto-effectiveness sense; social participation and absence of chronic illnesses. In another study on the subject, Depp and Jeste (2006), had demonstrated that it has referring differences to the domnios, independent 0 variable, instruments of measures and ratio of the citizens that had filled the criteria for well-succeeded aging. Relative 2006, quotation that the OMS considers that the concept of quality of life involves three qualities essentials: the fact of if dealing with a concept subjective, multidimensional, and inclusive of positive and negative aspects. Neri (1993) cited by Relative 2006, I defined the oldness usual (or normal), in counterpoint with the pathological oldness. In the usual oldness, physical and/or mental illnesses or objective functional limitations occur or subjective aferveis, however in moderate intensity or have taken the sufficient to cause only partial changes the daily activities.

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Being Worthy of Love

Taken from I like what he wrote earlier about – that every person is worthy of such love what he deserves. Ie we directly – the smiths themselves of their happiness. This is especially true of girls. After all, a man become stronger and more attractive – when near Sneem pretty girl, with whom he is in love. In zhenzhin the opposite. The woman then is beautiful and attractive …

and desirable to men when she very much loved. There is a view of women – a failure in terms of personal life. Practice Director and personal experience have shown that the true representative of this species occur in the age of 25 and older. Scientists are divided on their views: A woman who understands Understands all his problems. Which is usually does not understand his wife. Yes, and that he could not divorce his wife, she also understands. Sometimes understanding is delayed for many years.

The woman realizes that should not ask too many questions, but should on the contrary – not to create any problems. That is, be always ready. PCRM helps readers to explore varied viewpoints. Including time off from his job if he had suddenly appeared a "window" that is free from his wife, children and work. Low-paid work. Therefore, this type of woman give him a birthday good pants, jacket for his child, and powder to his wife. She realizes that he can not go with her to the sea. Understands that night, he should pay a visit to the terminally ill mother-in with a very sick wife and an offspring with the psychological problems.

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