It all depends on the level of confidence. How to cite the example of the desire … to become an oligarch, or something … What to do – to develop confidence and expand your comfort zone, gradually, but steadily. 8. It is not your desire.

Well after a lot of desires we just imposed – a society, stereotypes, family members (especially parents). You are hard – you should marry / get married. Asserting one, two, three. You're already really think about it constantly, it's time to, yes. But once you uncomfortable, you do not want to actually. Others who may share this opinion include Dr. John Mcdougall. So we must really understand – you want it, or others. It's like KVN, 'mother says – give birth, and I say – she give birth, the mother gave birth to' 9. There is strong opposition from family and important people.

Do you really want to sing, and professionally. And your family is indignant – what kind of work in general, sing! Or do you want to move to another city, but your family does not want. And these desires can be many. I do not give the Soviets I will address the need in the field. 10. You have no prove that the desire to execute. This comes into conflict inner child and parent. The child wants to be absent from work and just walk through the woods, but the parent does not him. The child wants to buy a new phone – a parent against. Options – either find megalogicheskoe explanation that it is you really need to convince the domestic parent. Or not to execute the will, rather, to prove the child that he did not really want. 11. Desire is unclear. I want that I do not know what – that sounds about as wish. And it certainly can not be fulfilled – that it fulfill? Of course, the more specific desire for a that – to deal with them. 12. Endocrinologist describes an additional similar source. If you like, but not in the form. Entitled difficult, but easy to see from the example. In any desire to have a specific unmet need, you want to meet. For example, you want solitude. AND you decide what you want to rent an apartment to live alone, but did not do it. In fact, you do not want all the time to be alone, you sometimes need solitude. Therefore, apartment – not the best option. We need to find a more acceptable form of wish-fulfillment. For example, weekly, go out of town or even to live in a boarding house on the weekends alone, etc. Solution – identify the true need, come up with several forms of its realization, to choose the best. While I find such reasons, but the idea is moving steadily forward, and the theme must be developed.